Wexford’s
Main Street always looked majestic to me back then. Sure, I knew O’Connell
Street left it in the ha’penny place but how often did I get to Dublin?
The
Main Street was particularly magical around Christmas when the shopkeepers
strung lights like jungle vines across its narrow expanse.
Everyone
walked the town on those December evenings before television cast its spell
over the country; in fact, you could say the Main Street was our interactive television.
You were there to see and be seen.
You meandered from Selskar Abbey at
one end up to the Capitol Cinema at the other, and back ad infinitum, stopping
only to yell at friends or whistle at the convent girls.
On
weekend afternoons the country people would arrive in town. They had a
different routine. The women would attend to their shopping while their menfolk
waited for them in the few pubs where culchies were welcome. Everyone knew
their place in Wexford and townies ruled their medieval streets with an iron
fist.
I
was a rarity and mixed easily with both sides, for though I lived in the town
my grandfather farmed a hundred of the finest acres a mile or so out.
My
father and grandfather were alike in many ways – independent men who didn’t
take well to receiving orders. My grandfather, being well off, didn’t need to
heed anyone; my father, being the eldest son, did.
They
rarely argued, in fact they didn’t speak much, until everything would come to a
head. Then my father would storm out and return to his other more remunerative
life as a merchant marine. With my grandfather getting on in years, however, there
was always a need for my father to return, and being the loyal eldest son he’d
put bygones behind him.
My
father was far from blameless for this state of affairs for he could never
bring himself to ask for whatever money was his due. Pride, indeed, can cause
all manner of heartbreak.
I
can still summon up the memory of that bicycle in Alfie Cadogan’s shop window.
It was a lovely bright blue color and had cutting edge gears. I had tracked it
patiently through the autumn and it was still there in mid December.
I
took a shot and requested it as a Christmas present though I knew it was far
too expensive. We used to write letters to Santa Claus back then although I was
having doubts about this old guy’s ability to negotiate the slated, sloping
rooftops of Wexford town.
I
noticed the occasional anxious look on my father’s face as Christmas approached.
He had been home for over a year and the tension between him and my grandfather
was mounting by the day. I prayed there would be no explosion until after the
holidays.
My
father seemed preoccupied that Christmas Eve when we walked downtown. However,
he did stop outside Alfie Cadogan’s window and cast a wary glance at the brand
new bicycle and its exorbitant price.
“Is
that it?” He inquired before throwing back his shoulders and entering the shop.
Then began the haggling which was excruciatingly embarrassing to me; so much so
that my father became impatient with my fidgeting and told me to go on about my
business, and that he’d see me on the town later.
He
went to the pub instead and I slunk home to bed with all hope lost. On Christmas
morning I tiptoed down the stairs dejected, but to my astonishment the beautiful
blue bicycle stood gleaming beside the Christmas tree.
I
knew how scarce money was, but at that age you don’t ask questions. Years later
my mother let slip that my father ate his pride, phoned my grandfather and
demanded his monetary due.
I
don’t know if that was the cause but it all came to a head between them a
couple of weeks later when my father stormed out and signed on a Blue Star
vessel heading for South America.
They’re all long gone now but it’s
a rare December I don’t think of that beautiful blue bicycle, my father and
grandfather, and Christmas Eve on Wexford’s magical Main Street.
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